Learning to let go takes a lot of intention. Getting yourself to stop controlling the world around you is far easier said than done. Yet, if we become concious of our behaviors, the nagging, manipulating, etc., we begin ceasing these actions with more frequency. Learning to trust God in the theses issues can take time as you have to unlearn all of your own bad habits from the past. Yet, the more you do it, the more peace and freedom you’re discover.