Porn Takes a Kilt, Not a Skirt
Pin it Dealing with porn issues is not for the faint of heart. In 2002, I began a journey to deal with my motives, conflicts with, and addiction to viewing naked folk. My marriage had tanked, my self-worth was crap, and I had lost all passion for life. I was miserable. Here we are years ...
Read MoreNo Cure for Crazy
Pin it Several guys I’ve been counseling recently have been struggling with their relationships. One fella has a girl he’s been with for two years and she’s been texting a former lover behind his back, she gave him crotch crickets, and would still enjoys going to the club with her girlfriends without him around… dude, ...
Read MoreMy Terrorist Within
Pin it Tiger Woods, Jesse James, politicians, musicians… many male celebrities seem to share the same self-destructive qualities. They have huge moral failures. Why do these men, some who have everything going for them, bring this kind of failure on themselves? Perhaps a better question might be, “Why do you and I screw up our ...
Read MoreTiger’s Invitation to Grace
Pin it My heart completely identifies with Tiger. I’ve been in that place of shame, brokenness and guilt. I know what it’s like to feel embarrassed and ridiculed. Worst of all, I know what it’s like to have it all self-inflicted. Shame is one of the most debilitating emotions on the the human psyche. Instantly, ...
Read More60 Stories High
Pin it I was at cocktail party last night. People were decked out in lovely attire and I was there with my wife and friends. It was held in a high rise office building 60 stories high, a spectacular view of the city.. At some point in time, a storm rolled in and rain and ...
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