Archive for August, 2010

7 Ways to Bring Sexy Back to Your Marriage

Pin it Foreplay starts WAAAYYY before the bedroom. We’ve had two children in the last two years and life has never been the same. Between feedings, nap time, laundry, cleaning, diaper changes, and work… there’s little time for sleep, let alone love-making. It’s so easy to slip into the routine of life and miss out ...

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How to Make Sex & Marriage Like a Camel & Water

Pin it Sometimes, I think we make issues far bigger than they need to be. Other times, I think we neglect to see gigantic red flags right before our eyes… then other times, we just don’t know what in the heck we’re doing. I think the issue of sex in marriage is exactly like this ...

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SEX: Elusive Divine Nookie

Pin it Why is sex such an intricate part of our lives? Sex empowers, bonds, reproduces, and energizes. It creates intimacy, relationship, endorphins, and orgasm. Sex is one of the most powerful drives, a release of stress and tension. At the same time, sex is controlling, manipulating, and a thief. It possesses the soul, a ...

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In the Midst of My Porn, God

Pin it Much of my life would be different had I not been such a control freak. After my porn issue was exposed, getting life back together was a huge challenge. I’d been through all of the Christian calisthenics I’d been indoctrinated with over the years: praying longer; praying harder; confessing all of my sins ...

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Porn Recovery: My Part

Pin it 2003, it was a scary time for me when I finally came clean on my addiction. I was full of shame and yet, ironically, relieved I didn’t have to hide it anymore. My wife, at the time, found websites I had visited, even camped out at. There were rendezvouses  I had arranged with ...

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